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'Sorrow and Bliss' by Meg Mason is a poignant and immersive novel that delves into the complexities of mental illness, family relationships, and self-discovery. The story follows Martha, a character grappling with her own mental struggles, as she navigates through life with a mix of humor, wit, and heartbreak. The book provides a raw and honest look at Martha's journey of understanding herself and the impact of her mental health on her relationships, especially her marriage. Through a first-person narrative, readers are drawn into Martha's world, filled with emotional ups and downs that leave a lasting impact.

The book beautifully captures the essence of Martha's internal turmoil, her relationships with her family members, and the challenges she faces in accepting herself. With a blend of humor, tenderness, and poignancy, 'Sorrow and Bliss' explores themes of love, mental illness, and the complexities of human emotions. The narrative style moves seamlessly between heartbreakingly sad moments and laugh-out-loud funny instances, creating a compelling and thought-provoking read that lingers in the reader's mind long after finishing the book.

Characters:

Characters are multifaceted, with Martha as a central figure who struggles with her mental health while navigating complex relationships.

Writing/Prose:

The writing style is both humorous and poignant, featuring an engaging first-person narrative that offers insights into the protagonist's struggles.

Plot/Storyline:

The plot centers around the protagonist's struggles with an unnamed mental illness and its effects on her life and relationships.

Setting:

The setting is contemporary British life, which plays a crucial role in illustrating the protagonist's experiences and family dynamics.

Pacing:

The pacing is balanced, effectively alternating between quicker narrative moments and slower, more reflective sections.
The woman had accepted a canapé from a waiter and was putting it in her mouth when she noticed us, realising in the same instant that it could not be managed in one bite. As we approached, she lowered...

Notes:

The protagonist, Martha, is described as spiky, brittle, and funny, making her a complex character.
The book explores the gritty reality of mental illness, portraying its damaging effects on individuals and their loved ones.
Martha's mental illness is never explicitly named, which has led to mixed reactions from readers.
Humor is used throughout the narrative to balance the heavy themes of mental health and dysfunction.
Martha has a close relationship with her sister Ingrid, who represents a contrasting character in their bohemian upbringing.
Set in the UK, the story touches on Martha's experiences from her teenage years to adulthood.
The book has been praised for its realistic depiction of depression and presents a mix of tragedy and comedy.
Martha's husband, Patrick, is depicted as a supportive partner, standing by her despite her struggles.
Meg Mason's writing evokes empathy from some readers while not resonating with others, highlighting the subjective nature of engagement with the protagonist.
The novel addresses various aspects of familial relationships and the complexities of marriage amidst mental health challenges.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Content warnings include mental illness, depression, suicidal ideation, and family dysfunction.

Has Romance?

The novel includes elements of romance, particularly focusing on Martha's marriage and the strained dynamics within it.

From The Publisher:

"Brilliantly faceted and extremely funny. . . . While I was reading it, I was making a list of all the people I wanted to send it to, until I realized that I wanted to send it to everyone I know." - Ann Patchett

"Improbably charming...will have you chortling and reading lines aloud." -PEOPLE

The internationally bestselling, compulsively readable novel-spiky, sharp, intriguingly dark, and tender-that combines the psychological insight of Sally Rooney with the sharp humor of Nina Stibbe and the emotional resonance of Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine.

Martha Friel just turned forty. Once, she worked at Vogue and planned to write a novel. Now, she creates internet content. She used to live in a pied-à-terre in Paris. Now she lives in a gated community in Oxford, the only person she knows without a PhD, a baby or both, in a house she hates but cannot bear to leave. But she must leave, now that her husband Patrick-the kind who cooks, throws her birthday parties, who loves her and has only ever wanted her to be happy-has just moved out.

Because there's something wrong with Martha, and has been for a long time. When she was seventeen, a little bomb went off in her brain and she was never the same. But countless doctors, endless therapy, every kind of drug later, she still doesn't know what's wrong, why she spends days unable to get out of bed or alienates both strangers and her loved ones with casually cruel remarks.

And she has nowhere to go except her childhood home: a bohemian (dilapidated) townhouse in a romantic (rundown) part of London-to live with her mother, a minorly important sculptor (and major drinker) and her father, a famous poet (though unpublished) and try to survive without the devoted, potty-mouthed sister who made all the chaos bearable back then, and is now too busy or too fed up to deal with her.

But maybe, by starting over, Martha will get to write a better ending for herself-and she'll find out that she's not quite finished after all.

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2 comment(s)

Loved It
2 months

Good mental health rep. Relatable

 
Loved It
2 months

On the cover of the Sorrow and Bliss book I borrowed from the library it said it was for those who enjoyed "Gail Honeyman and Sally Rooney", and I got instantly bit weary of reading the book. But I'm happy I gave it a go anywho as I really enjoyed the story. Thought it was well written and I enjoyed reading about the main character

 
 
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