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Everything I Never Told You

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In "Everything I Never Told You" by Celeste Ng, the Lee family is faced with the tragic death of their daughter Lydia, leading them to unravel family secrets and confront the impact of unspoken truths on their relationships. The novel delves into themes of mixed-race identity, parental expectations, sibling dynamics, and the complexities of communication within a family. Through a nonlinear narrative, Ng skillfully navigates between past and present, exploring the characters' perspectives and emotions as they come to terms with Lydia's death and its aftermath.

Characters:

The characters are complex, flawed individuals whose interactions reveal the impact of their expectations and disappointments.

Writing/Prose:

The writing style is emotionally charged and skillfully crafted, creating a deep connection with the characters.

Plot/Storyline:

The plot centers on Lydia Lee's death and the impact this has on her family, exploring their secrets and relationships across time.

Setting:

The setting reflects the racial and cultural tensions of the time, adding depth to the family narrative.

Pacing:

The pacing is a mix of slower introspective moments contrasted with narrative advancements, keeping the reader engaged.
Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet. 1977, May 3, six thirty in the morning, no one knows anything but this innocuous fact: Lydia is late for breakfast. As always, next to her cereal bowl, her...

Notes:

The novel begins with the stark statement, 'Lydia is dead,' which sets the tone for the family's grief.
It explores the complex dynamics of a mixed-race family in 1970s America, highlighting racism and cultural identity.
James Lee, the father, struggles with his identity as the son of Chinese immigrants, while Marilyn, the mother, grapples with her unfulfilled dreams of becoming a doctor.
Lydia is the first born child who becomes the focus of her parents' unfulfilled expectations, which leads to immense pressure on her.
The narrative shifts between past and present, providing insights into each family member's perspective and their shared history.
The novel addresses themes of parental pressure, the expectations children face, and the consequences of not communicating effectively within a family.
Hannah, the youngest sibling, often feels invisible and overlooked, yet her observations are crucial to unraveling the family's dynamics.
The book skillfully creates a portrait of a family that seems outwardly perfect but is struggling internally with deep-seated issues and secrets.
Ng's writing is noted for its beautiful prose and emotional depth, making it easy for readers to empathize with the characters.
The ending of the novel leaves readers questioning the long-term effects of tragedy on a family and whether they can truly heal.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Triggers include themes of suicide, grief, depression, mental health struggles, and the impact of racism.

From The Publisher:

The acclaimed debut novel by the author of Little Fires Everywhere.

"A taut tale of ever deepening and quickening suspense." -O, the Oprah Magazine

"Explosive . . . Both a propulsive mystery and a profound examination of a mixed-race family." -Entertainment Weekly

"Lydia is dead. But they don't know this yet." So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue. But when Lydia's body is found in the local lake, the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee family together is destroyed, tumbling them into chaos. A profoundly moving story of family, secrets, and longing, Everything I Never Told You is both a gripping page-turner and a sensitive family portrait, uncovering the ways in which mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, and husbands and wives struggle, all their lives, to understand one another.

Ratings (80)

Incredible (12)
Loved It (28)
Liked It (24)
It Was OK (8)
Did Not Like (6)
Hated It (2)

Reader Stats (151):

Read It (82)
Want To Read (59)
Not Interested (10)

7 comment(s)

Did Not Like
1 week

First half dragged, was very hard to want to keep reading. Poor character development. When I finally couldn’t put the book down and got to the end, it was anticlimactic and a let down. No twist, just blah.

 
Loved It
3 weeks

This was an interesting read - the characters interested me and I found it a relatively easy read. Its somewhat engrossing. I liked it.

 
Hated It
2 months

I’m sorry, I just couldn’t wait to get this book over with. I was bored. It was very hard to like Lydia. Both the parents were annoying. The only characters I liked were Nath and Hannah.

 
Incredible
4 months

This book wrenches on some many levels. What child, teen or parent has not experienced the Lee's is one way.

 
Loved It
5 months

This was a very moving book about a biracial family growing up in the Midwest US in the 1970s. It is hard to read because it is so realistic and powerful, and that made it at times gut-wrenching without being maudlin or melodramatic. It is tragic how some people do not communicate honestly with each other. And how society tries to force us into certain specific roles and expectations, even if we do not want to fit in. This one will definitely stay with me awhile.

 
Liked It
7 months

The mystery surrounding Lydia really drove my interest forward to continue reading this book. The family drama were often more interesting when we got to see the flashbacks and anecdotes to show everything that led up to their family fracturing over time.

 
Did Not Like
8 months

Predictable. Boring.

 

About the Author:

Celeste Ng grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and Shaker Heights, Ohio. She graduated from Harvard University and earned an MFA from the University of Michigan. Her debut novel, Everything I Never Told You, was a New York Times bestseller and winner of the…

 
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