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Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, and Advice for Living Your Best Life

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Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, and Advice for Living Your Best Life by Ali Wong is a collection of letters written to her daughters, sharing intimate details about her life, career, family, and experiences. The book offers a mix of brutal honesty, humor, and heartfelt moments, providing insight into her upbringing, cultural background, and relationships. Wong's writing style is described as raunchy, graphic, and unapologetic, showcasing her comedic talent and ability to balance humor with more serious topics.

Writing/Prose:

The writing style is informal and engaging, often characterized by humor that is both crass and heartfelt, allowing the author's personality to shine through.

Plot/Storyline:

The narrative unfolds through letters addressed to the author's daughters, combining comedic storytelling with heartfelt advice and reflections on family, culture, and personal challenges.

Setting:

The settings revolve around Wong's personal history, enriched by her cultural background and the experiences that shaped her as a comedian and mother.

Pacing:

The pacing is brisk, with a mix of humor and poignant moments that keeps readers engaged throughout the collection of essays.
Even before your father and I got married, I felt like it was time to start trying for a baby. I had family and friends go through expensive and grueling fertility treatments. Some were successful and...

Notes:

Ali Wong writes her memoir in the form of letters to her two daughters.
The book offers a blend of humor, personal stories, and insights about motherhood and family.
It contains moments of emotional depth, as Wong shares her experiences with miscarriage and cultural identity.
Wong's family dynamic is described as chaotic yet tight-knit, with humorous anecdotes from her upbringing.
She discusses the importance of marrying within one's culture for mutual understanding.
Wong emphasizes the value of travel and experiencing different cultures and cuisines.
The book features an afterword from her husband, giving his perspective on their marriage and family life.
Wong addresses societal expectations about women and men in parenting roles, challenging traditional gender norms.
The writing style is very candid and often includes crude humor, characteristic of her stand-up performances.
The memoir delves into her struggles as a comedian in a male-dominated industry, discussing the importance of diverse representation in comedy.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Content warnings include discussions of miscarriage, vulgar humor, and explicit language, potentially uncomfortable for some readers.

From The Publisher:

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Ali Wong's heartfelt and hilarious letters to her daughters (the two she put to work while they were still in utero) cover everything they need to know in life, like the unpleasant details of dating, how to be a working mom in a male-dominated profession, and how she trapped their dad.

"Knife-sharp . . . a genuine pleasure."-The New York Times

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY Time

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In her hit Netflix comedy special Baby Cobra, an eight-month pregnant Ali Wong resonated so strongly that she even became a popular Halloween costume. Wong told the world her remarkably unfiltered thoughts on marriage, sex, Asian culture, working women, and why you never see new mom comics on stage but you sure see plenty of new dads.

The sharp insights and humor are even more personal in this completely original collection. She shares the wisdom she's learned from a life in comedy and reveals stories from her life off stage, including the brutal single life in New York (i.e. the inevitable confrontation with erectile dysfunction), reconnecting with her roots (and drinking snake blood) in Vietnam, tales of being a wild child growing up in San Francisco, and parenting war stories. Though addressed to her daughters, Ali Wong's letters are absurdly funny, surprisingly moving, and enlightening (and gross) for all.

Praise for Dear Girls

"Fierce, feminist, and packed with funny anecdotes."-Entertainment Weekly

"[Wong] spins a volume whose pages simultaneously shock and satisfy. . . . Dear Girls is not so much a real-talk handbook as it is a myth-puncturing manifesto."-Vogue

"[A] refreshing, hilarious, and honest account of making a career in a male-dominated field, dating, being a mom, growing up, and so much more…Yes, this book is addressed to Wong's daughters, but every reader will find nuggets of wisdom and inspiration and, most important, something to laugh at."-Bustle

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About the Author:

Ali Wong is a stand-up comedian, writer, and actress. She has released two hit Netflix comedy specials-Baby Cobra and Hard Knock Wife-and will star in the Netflix original film Always Be My Maybe. She lives in Los Angeles with her…

 
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