'Man and Boy' by Tony Parsons is a heartfelt exploration of a single dad's journey in raising his son, capturing the essence of fatherhood and family dynamics. The plot delves into themes of growth, relationships, and self-discovery, portraying a modern-day view of life that is relatable and thought-provoking. The writing style is described as raw, honest, and humorous, with characters that come alive and evoke a range of emotions from the readers.

Characters:

The characters are well-developed, particularly the father-son duo, Harry and Pat, whose relationship anchors the narrative, while supporting characters reflect various societal expectations.

Writing/Prose:

The writing style is occasionally poignant but often feels trite and clichéd, as if aimed more at commercial success rather than artistic depth.

Plot/Storyline:

The plot revolves around themes of parenting and divorce, showcasing a father's struggles as he navigates his relationship with his son and contrasts it with romantic complexities.

Setting:

The setting reflects modern-day urban family life, focusing on the challenges of single fatherhood.

Pacing:

The pacing varies throughout, with some sections feeling slow or screenplay-like, though punctuated by poignant moments that resonate.

You are still young enough to stay up all night, but you are old enough to have a credit card. All the uncertainties and poverty of your teens and twenties are finally over—and good riddance to the lo...

Notes:

The book draws comparisons to 'Kramer vs Kramer' but is criticized for lacking depth.

Tony Parsons' writing can be poignant but is seen as commercial.

There are cliched elements in the story, making it feel familiar.

A poignant hospital scene between Harry and his son is highlighted as the book's best moment.

The main relationship between Harry and his son Pat is described as splendid and believable.

Harry's relationship with his WWII veteran father adds emotional depth to the story.

Themes of divorce and its impact on children are explored.

The book has elements that some readers find reminiscent of 'The Graduate' but potentially unbelievable.

One reader called the book funny, touching, and honest, likening it to 'High Fidelity' or 'Bridget Jones.'

Reviewers mentioned the book's appeal to middle-aged men with children.

Parsons tackles male and female expectations of marriage in a relatable way.

Several readers found the writing style to be somewhat average, remarking on repetitive descriptions of women's appearance.

Some readers noted that the book became screenplay-like but still enjoyed it.

One reader expressed a strong emotional connection with Harry, seeing reflections of themselves in his character.

The book encourages readers to appreciate family life and rekindle love for their relationships.

The title hints at Harry's growth from boyhood to manhood.

The story is described as a mix of smiles and tears, showcasing personal growth.

Several readers found the book hard to put down once they started reading it.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Content warnings include themes of divorce, emotional distress, and family strife, which may be sensitive for some readers.

Has Romance?

The book does contain elements of romance, though it is not the primary focus; it explores relationships alongside the protagonist's fatherhood journey.

From The Publisher:

"Set your other books aside for a day or two and read straight through Man and Boy." -USA Today

An "utterly irresistible" (People) novel about a man who has it all: a beautiful wife, a wonderful son and a great job-until he chucks it all away. By turns funny, sharp and heart-wrenching, Man and Boy is the story of how he comes to terms with his life and, gradually, learns what words like love and family really mean.

Some situations to avoid when preparing for your all-important, finally-I-am-fully-grown thirtieth birthday:

-Having a one-night stand with a colleague from work.

-The rash purchase of luxury items you can't afford.

-Being left by your wife.

-Losing your job.

-Suddenly becoming a single parent.

If you are coming up on thirty, whatever you do, don't do any of that. It will f*** up your whole day.

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About the Author:

Tony Parsons is the author of two international bestsellers, Man and Boy and Man and Wife. A former music journalist and television personality, he lives in England with his wife and daughter, and he has a son from a previous marriage.

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Man and Boy

Tony Parsons

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